Want to Know a Way to Sustain a Joyful Life?

Before I tell you, it’s important we take a look at what we’re currently doing that’s not working for us:

Try this simple exercise...Take note of the number of times in the day you complain, say what you don’t want, feel resistance of any kind...Then, notice the feeling of wanting to push that away from you...That’s exactly what’s keeping you from your joyful life!

So now that we are aware of what we’re working with, try this...every time you feel resistance of any kind...irritation, frustration, resentment, anger, sadness, boredom...try ALLOWING it to be here without trying to push it away.  (By the way, this really takes practice!)

And the last piece is to INVITE that part of you that is resisting and that has suffered for a long time and that is simply waiting for you to heal it...into JOY. Just keep following your joy and bliss rather than what you don’t want. 

Now that I’ve given you this awareness, in order for this to actually work for you, you must apply it to your life. I happen to know that part is somewhat of a challenge for most because they’re juggling a lot of issues at one time, and even though I explained it clearly, the energy required to implement this may not be present yet. If that describes you, and you’re serious about living a joyful life, then send me a PM HERE so we can book a call to talk about how I can get you the same results my clients are getting. ❤️

What’s Your Money Story? Here’s Mine…

I used to be a penny pincher. I saved and saved and spent a lot of time deciding what I would spend my money on. I used coupons at the store and looked for the sale items. That’s all great fine and dandy, but it got OLD for me. You see, I approached money from a place of “I DON’T HAVE enough”, otherwise known as SCARCITY mentality.

I’ve learned something about the idea of I don’t have enough... it comes from the idea that I AM NOT ENOUGH! And all of that is based in FEAR...What if I can’t pay my bills this month? What if I get robbed? What if I get in an accident, and it sucks all my money? What if I get laid off and I wind up penniless?...It’s incredible what a neurotic mind can think up!

I used to look around at others who bought themselves nice things and think, I cannot imagine spending that much money on myself. I put off traveling and experiences that seemed fun, but way too extravagant for me. They would have to wait for some undesignated time in the future where I would have more money and feel comfortable spending it on myself. The truth is it wasn’t because I didn’t have the money or the ability to get the money; it was because I was afraid of losing my money, of not getting enough enjoyment from my investment, of being cheated, of running out of money. Lordy, the list of fears goes on and on.

How did you change that? you ask...I started working with my fear and taking back my power. I learned that even though those fears seemed very real, they actually were not. I learned that behind those fears, was a very joyful and abundant reality. One that understands that everything is here now for my enjoyment. And it was up to me to open to it by healing my fears.

We attract the energy we vibrate. When I was so afraid of not having enough, I attracted situations where I did not have enough, or it felt like I didn’t have enough. But when I shifted, I began to flow in my abundance. I no longer pinched pennies. I trusted myself to make wise decisions without having to consternate about it. I began flowing in abundance and using the money wisely and enjoying it. I also channeled the money to create for the Greater Good. And it wasn’t hard.

I think of money as energy. It’s used as an exchange. I exchange money for what I need or want. Others exchange what I need or want for money from me. It’s pretty simple. We just are conditioned to make more of it than it has to be.

These days I no longer operate in scarcity. I flow in abundance because I know who I AM. ❤️

Everything Rises and Falls on Leadership

If we have a poor leader, we struggle to make it. If we have a great leader, we soar. Let’s look a little closer at this...many of the circles I run in are leaders, like me. I learn a lot from them, but I notice a dynamic that seems to be limiting what’s possible: it’s common to reach a level of proficiency by following a good leader, becoming a leader, and then to stop following a leader.

Here’s the thing...We can only advance as far as the leader. So when we outgrow a leader, we may be tempted to just go solo and piggyback on our peers’ ideas for growth. While that kind of collaboration is very important, once again, we can only rise as high as the people who are at the top. So, the value of peer leadership becomes very limited.

My point is that if we wish to continue expanding into our leadership potential, the most skillful way is to get guidance and leadership from someone who is doing what we want to do and doing it well. And that requires us being humble and open enough to receive and willing to invest our time, money and energy in our growth as a leader. So if we want to continue growing as a good leader, we must continue following a good leader. That’s all!

A Word of Encouragement When Life Gets Hard…

Let’s get one thing straight first...Every one of us is pure LOVE in a human body...Source in skin...God in costume. Got it? So, it ain’t easy being human. Sometimes life is freakin hard!...that is if you’re merely being human...but it ain’t hard at all when you’re God...The trouble comes when you don’t remember that you are God in costume and when you don’t know how to access your God nature.

I will tell you how to access your Divine nature, but even though it’s quite simple, you won’t remember by tomorrow nor know how to do this simple thing consistently without more help...Are you ready?...YES! you say with a hint of exasperation in your voice... The way to access your Divine limitless nature is to be PRESENT with love and acceptance to whatever arises HERE NOW.

Hmmm....You’re scratching your head on that one...Did she get that right? you think...Meanwhile, if you ascertain that yes, I did in fact get it right...which I did because I AM living my life gracefully, effortlessly and having a whole lot of fun with my new life...and you are ready to get assistance with your journey like my clients are doing...then send me a PM HERE to book a call so we can talk about shifting you out of life being hard to life being effortless and fun.

So remember when life gets hard, it’s time to be God. It ain’t hard to be God! ❤️