My Life as a Game and How I’m Winning

Have you ever played chess? What if our lives were one big chess game? Well, who are we playing against? you ask... That’s the thing...It LOOKS like we’re playing against other people and situations that arise. But things are not what they seem. I A…

Have you ever played chess? What if our lives were one big chess game? Well, who are we playing against? you ask... That’s the thing...It LOOKS like we’re playing against other people and situations that arise. But things are not what they seem. I AM the creator of my entire human experience. It’s not random...The other player is actually a version of me! It’s CONSCIOUSNESS as the Older Wiser Version of me in the future!

This older wiser version of me from my future knows exactly what to put into my life so that I can advance towards my future self. Each incident, trigger, trauma is like a move on the chess board. When those things happen, it’s now our turn, the current version of us. So, here’s the thing, if we approach the game from our limited human self, we’re not likely to do as well, and it’s not fun because we don’t have the advantage. It’s like Unconsciousness playing Consciousness. But, if we operate as the Divine limitless beings that we are that knows everything we need to know in this moment, we are able to play the game more skillfully. At this point, it’s Consciousness playing Consciousness.

With this awareness, we are able to go through life bringing our amazing future into the present. By the way, if you are playing a game against yourself, you automatically win! And it’s so much more fun!

Do I HAVE To?

Well, no you don’t have to do anything! In fact, let’s play a game...Every time we hear ourselves say, “Have to, need to, SHOULD or MUST”, let’s REFRAME it!

Why? you ask...Because those expressions come from our LIMITED human selves that feel SEPARATE from what we need and want and is constantly striving to achieve something that is not HERE NOW. Going deeper into that thought: when I say “should”, I’m judging that something’s wrong with what IS. Hmmmm...I can hear you thinking!

Let’s look at the reframes to see how we can flow more gracefully and effortlessly, so that we can both enjoy what IS and achieve a better future:

Old way: I should...

Reframe: I have the opportunity to...

Old way: I have to or need to...

Reframe: I GET to...

Old way: I must...

Reframe: I choose to...

Now we’ve positioned ourselves to fully ACCEPT WHAT IS, so that we can truly live and ENJOY this moment because we are flowing from our Highest Selves. And we accomplished this by simply shifting our viewpoint by how we speak! Good job! ❤️

Now we’ve positioned ourselves to fully ACCEPT WHAT IS, so that we can truly live and ENJOY this moment because we are flowing from our Highest Selves. And we accomplished this by simply shifting our viewpoint by how we speak! Good job! ❤️

Looking For a Quick Fix for Problems with Life?

Well, of course you are! Every single one of us just want to feel better...NOW. There’s nothing wrong with that. However, I have good news and bad news. Which would you like to hear first?...the bad news?...okay... The bad news is that there is NOT …

Well, of course you are! Every single one of us just want to feel better...NOW. There’s nothing wrong with that. However, I have good news and bad news. Which would you like to hear first?...the bad news?...okay... The bad news is that there is NOT actually a quick fix for real problems that actually work. It may seem to work for a little while, and you feel a little better, but it doesn’t actually solve the problem. Now the good news... The good news is that there ARE solutions that DO work to heal your problems with life. They’re just not instant. They require your input, as well as whatever the solution offers.

Let’s look a little closer at this. We didn’t get these problems overnight, so it’s entirely unreasonable to think that we could get rid of them instantly. Those of you who have been through some very difficult things, may be very tired and exhausted from trying so many things. And the frustrating thing is that they did not sustain your healing. Can I tell you a secret?... The reason why those things did not heal or sustain your healing is because the healing must come from within, and there must be a way to sustain doing this inner work.

I’ve been watching how we operate: perhaps we go through an event or series of events that have been very difficult for us. That throws us into a journey with anxiety, sadness, anger, frustration and a bunch more. At first, it’s all so overwhelming that we don’t know which way to turn. Then we start trying this and that. Maybe we go to a therapist or to get a massage or read a book or distract or numb ourselves in some way. Some of it actually helps for a while, but it doesn’t seem to last. Talk about frustrating!

I want to have a frank discussion with those of you who have really tried and have been unable to sustain your healing. And you’re having a difficult time with all of those feelings and noticing more drama into your life. You’re REALLY READY to heal yourself. More importantly, you are willing to PRIORITIZE your healing above all else... I have really good news for you. You have positioned yourself to shift in a major way. The thing is that you haven’t been able to do this on your own. If you could, you would, but you haven’t.

This is where the Universe is asking you to take a big step and LOVE yourself enough to invest your time, money and energy in yourself by working with someone who actually knows how to bring you to your healing and show you how to sustain it. If that’s you, don’t hesitate. Today’s the day that you begin to set yourself free to really enjoy your life. Send me a PM HERE to book a call, so that we can see if we’re a vibrational match to work together, and I can get you the same results I am getting my clients.

You are IMPORTANT! You matter. You deserve to be happy. You deserve to be loved. ❤️

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Hit a Wall in Life?

We were minding our own business, doing the best we can dealing with all that life has thrown our way, when lo and behold...out of nowhere...we slam into a wall! WTF? Who’s bright idea was this to put a wall right in the middle of the path?!That’s w…

We were minding our own business, doing the best we can dealing with all that life has thrown our way, when lo and behold...out of nowhere...we slam into a wall! WTF? Who’s bright idea was this to put a wall right in the middle of the path?!

That’s when we hear it...what’s that?...the wall...It talks! So we start listening as the wall speaks: You’re not gonna make it. In fact, you’re gonna fail...epic fail. Why? Because you don’t know what you’re doing. Why’s that? Two reasons...one is you’re not very smart, and the other is you’re lazy. Look around...everybody else has their sh*t together, but somehow you don’t. Doesn’t that say something about you? I mean really...haven’t you noticed nobody wants to hang with you?...

This has to be the meanest wall we’ve ever heard! So we hall off and punch the wall, but that wasn’t a great idea because it’s still talking and now our fist hurts. Finally, we plop down with our back against the wall feeling completely powerless... and the wall stops talking...But we still hear something...Sounds like it’s coming from the other side of the wall!

It sounds joyful...and peaceful...and people are actually talking quite beautifully to one another...and we realize that’s OUR life on the other side of the wall...waiting for us! Just then, we see this woman standing in front of us. 

She says she lives on the other side of the wall, and she is inviting us to join her. But we can’t, we say...we don’t know how to get past the wall. No worries, she says...I do...and I can show you. It took me a little while to figure it out, but it’s actually not as hard as you think, she says. 

Well, of course, you know a good thing when you see it, so you take her up on her offer. And before long, you make it to the other side of the wall. It’s amazing! It’s actually better than you expected. And to think...it wasn’t long ago that you were plopped down with your back up against the wall listening to the meanest words and feeling so alone and powerless! 

If this story sounds like your story, and you’re ready to experience something new and beautiful, then send me a PM HERE to book a call, so that we can see if we’re a vibrational match to work together, and I can get you the same results I am getting my clients.

You are IMPORTANT! You matter. You deserve to be happy. You deserve to be loved. ❤️

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