Stop Doing What Doing What Other People Want You To Do

And start doing what YOU want to do. Here’s why: When you do what other people want you to do, you are giving away your power and denying your soul’s power and expression. We do what others want out of obligation and duty, which is a way to AVOID feeling guilty and our way of gaining their approval.

While catering to what others want from us may seem reasonable and worthwhile, that’s only because it’s what we’re used to doing. And it’s keeping us small because when we operate that way we are limited to our human potential, which is extremely LIMITED.

On the flip side, when we are present enough to listen to our hearts and do what really serves us at this time, we begin to flow from our Highest truest selves, which is LIMITLESS. We do this by following our JOY, not by avoiding our guilt. It’s a process to keep following what we do want instead of avoiding what we don’t want.

The process of following our joy is not easy for us because we are conditioned otherwise, therefore we need a STRATEGY to SHIFT into a new way of being. That’s exactly what I AM teaching my clients: how to follow their joy and operate from their UNLIMITED POWER, while healing our guilt, fear, sadness along the way.

If you are tired of doing what everybody else wants of you and ready to experience JOY, send me a PM so we can book a call to see if we are a vibrational match to work together. And I can get you the same results I AM getting my clients.

Your JOY and FREEDOM await you! I love you so much!

Do You Really Value Yourself?

What kind of a question is that? Of course I value myself, you say. Do you really? How have you invested in yourself? When was the last time you did something really special for yourself, to improve your health, your peace of mind, your quality of life?

Or are you spending all of your time, money and energy doing for others and putting yourself last?

Let’s look at this: are you stressed out? Do you feel anxious? Are you depressed? Are you suffering from grief? How have you invested in healing from anxiety, depression and grief?

How important is it to you to feel peace of mind? To be free from constant stress? To feel joy?

We humans are really funny. We are programmed to spend our time, money and energy acquiring things, preparing for our futures, preventing from disaster, but when it comes to our overall health and quality of life, we aren’t always so willing to invest in ourselves.

Why do we have such a scarcity mindset about investing in ourselves? Maybe it’s because we’ve gotten so used to being miserable and in pain that we don’t believe it’s possible to live otherwise. Maybe it’s because we’ve bought into the story that we don’t have enough time, money and energy to invest in our healing. Maybe it’s a priority thing that your healing isn’t as important as the other things you spend your money on.

The reality is there is nothing more important than your health and wellbeing. You can have all the stuff money can buy, you can have all the insurance and the retirement plan to ensure those investments are protected, but if you don’t have peace and joy, what does it matter?

Do you realize that scarcity mindset is actually PART of the problem that you are trying to solve? So long as you choose not to prioritize yourself and your healing, you lose and you continue to suffer.

That scarcity mindset says things like, I will just look for quick FREE ways to heal myself. Yet trying to heal yourself with FREE TIPS is like asking for a bandaid to put on a gaping wound.

It doesn’t have to be that way! You are important. You matter. You deserve to be happy. You deserve to be free to live and love and be loved. But you have to believe that about yourself and be willing to invest your time, money and energy in yourself and your healing and wellbeing.

I have never once regretted investing my time, money and energy in myself. And you know what? My investment has been paying huge dividends! I AM free, joyful, peaceful and full of love. It’s amazing.

If you are strapped for funds to invest in your healing, that’s precisely the time to get resourceful! When you come to the place where nothing is going to stop you from being healed, then you are READY, and the Universe is so ready to help you succeed. Click HERE for ways to get resourceful about your investment in yourself.

So if you’re ready to invest in yourself, in your healing from anxiety, depression and grief, send me a PM so we can book a call, and I can get you the same results I am getting my clients.

You will be so happy you loved yourself enough to give yourself to gifts of peace, love and joy. I love you so much! ❤️

Are You Man-Handling Your Life and It’s Not Budging?

Why in the freaking world is life so hard? Do you find yourself using all your mental, emotional and physical strength trying to steer you life in the right direction, but you can’t seem to move in any positive direction? And you’re exhausted trying!

So you kick your feet up in front on the TV and binge watch a Netflix series while sipping down delicious liquid refreshment, and the next day you notice that your place is a mess, and you’re late for work at a job that you do not like. You look in the mirror and notice that you look like a mess. And you plop down completely dejected because you feel your WHOLE LIFE is a mess, and you have no clue how to shift your life in a new direction so you can actually LOVE your life.

Ah! That really sucks! Step back for a minute, and let’s look at this from a more expanded view. Imagine your life like a big ship. You are going along in one direction, and you realize you’re about to hit an iceberg and sink your ship. Ouch! So you decide to use your brute manly strength (or woMANly strength if you’re a woman) to turn your ship around. But as hard as you try, with all your physical strength, your mental strength from all that education you got, even your emotional strength, you still can’t turn that ship around. What’s a person to do?

Newsflash! There’s a tiny thing called a RUDDER on every ship. A rudder doesn’t require brute power. It LEVERAGES power through simple physics. So by simply turning the steering wheel, the rudder easily shifts the ship. Oooo...What does that look like in our human lives?

Instead of trying to live our lives from our human logic, abilities and resources, which are very LIMITED, we can operate from our Divine LIMITLESS nature and live our lives gracefully, effortlessly and have a whole lot of fun. How do we do that?

(Life Guide enters stage right.)

There’s my cue!...That’s exactly what I’m showing my clients how to do! So perhaps you’re totally done with man-handling your life, perhaps you’re heading towards that iceberg, and you need to shift ASAP. Then send me a PM HERE so we can book a call to see if we’re a vibrational match to work together, and I can get you the same results I AM getting my clients.

Remember: no matter how you feel, you are special and important, and I love you so much!

Surviving or Thriving?

In order for me to thrive and live, I ‘ve had to be willing to die to what I thought it should look like. And I sure have died a lot!

I realize that all life is cyclical. I must die before I can be reborn…over and over again. I experience a lot of suffering when I refuse to die...to what I think it should look like because I’m resisting the natural flow of life.

When I am refusing to let go of what I thought it should look like, that’s coming from my fearful human self, which is only normal because that part of me can’t see the bigger picture. But when I operate from my Highest Self, I can see that dying is just the other side of living, and if I’m not willing to die, I cannot live.

When I choose to hang on to what I think it should look like, I start wilting and dying, and I go into survival mode. It’s a slow death and quite painful! Not doing that anymore!

I choose to die to what I think it should look like, as it arises, as part of the natural cycle of life. And I’m not afraid of that cycle. A tree dies in the forest and becomes compost so that life may sprout from it. This is the most natural way to be. I choose to THRIVE and LIVE!

If you’re tired of surviving and are ready to THRIVE and to transform your anxiety, depression and grief into PEACE, LOVE and JOY, join my FB group where you can get tips to do that. Click HERE to join.

And if you’re REALLY DONE with anxiety, grief and depression, send me a PM HERE to book a call to see if we’re a vibrational match to work together, and I can get you the same results I got myself and that I’m getting my clients.

I love you so much!