Once Upon a Time...I Got Stuck in the Middle of My Story

It was so terrifying! I was trapped in the dungeon of my mind, and it was DARK, and I was all ALONE. I was hungry and tired and afraid, and I had no idea how to free myself. Sound familiar?

Yup! I spent a lot of time in that dungeon. It stunk, and it sucked! Me and Anxiety, Grief and Depression. Boy, we could tell you some stories! But they’re very sad, and they will depress the hell out of you, so I won’t bother.

Instead, I’ll tell you that I finally did figure out how to free myself! It’s AMAZING! My life has been nothing short of miraculous! In the past five years, I’ve grieved the loss of a son, published 10 books, traveled extensively, walked hundreds of miles, shared daily inspiration on social media, produced lots of art, ran a business, all without being BUSY!

That’s great, you say, but that cannot happen to me. Oh yes IT CAN! I AM 100% sure that you can free yourself like I did! What?! Yessiree! Along my grief journey, I learned how to transform anxiety, grief and depression into peace, love and joy. And that’s exactly what I’m showing my clients to do!

So if you’re done with anxiety, grief and depression, and you’re tired of being locked away in the dungeon up your mind, send me a PM and let’s book a call to see if we are a vibrational match to work together, and I can get you the same results I’m getting my clients, and I got for myself. Your FREEDOM awaits you!

Do You Give A Flip?

Do you give a flip about your life, humanity, our earth? You do!... Then start FLIPPING EVERYTHING right HERE and NOW! What?!!!

That’s right. Every negative thought that pops into your pretty little head, FLIP IT. This is what it looks like:

Negative thought (N.T.): I don’t know what I’m doing!

Flip: I AM a Divine Limitless being, and I know everything I need to know in this moment.

(N.T.): Nobody wants to hang out with me.

Flip: People enjoy my presence, and they are happy to spend time with me.

(N.T.): I won’t be able to pay my bills this month.
Flip: I flow in abundance, and I AM not only able to meet my needs, but I flourish and am generous with others.

(N.T.): My skin looks horrible, and I have this consistent pain in my shoulder.
Flip: My skin is so healthy and supple, and my body is flowing in complete healing as I care for myself in the most amazing way.

(N.T.): I dread the thought of seeing (person who triggers you).
Flip: I look forward to seeing that person and the beautiful healing that is occurring in myself and the other.

We think when we SEE our external reality change, then we will be happy. It’s the other way around! WE MUST FIRST SEE WHAT WE ARE CREATING HERE NOW IN ORDER TO BRING IT INTO OUR REALITY.

So, my friends, happy flipping! See ya on the flip side of JOY! I love you so much! ❤️

Are You Giving Away Your Stuff?

I want to have a frank discussion with all of you amazing generous spiritual leaders. I know you. You want to make a difference in our world. And you bust yourselves doing it. You give and give and give of yourselves because you know your purpose is to change the world.

You want to do so much and reach as many people as possible that you give away your stuff for FREE! Books, teachings, TIME working with people, resources, the list is endless. You do this thinking, If it’s free, then more people will enjoy it and change their lives. What you don’t realize is the EXACT OPPOSITE of your intention is occurring! What?!!!

People value what they pay for. And they don’t value what they don’t pay for because if it’s free, then it’s not that important. Imagine that fancy upscale steakhouse (Vegans, please pardon my example, but I couldn’t think of a vegan analogy). What if they stood on the corner handing out juicy 16 oz. prime rib steaks, completely free? Well you would think they are out of their minds, or that there was a big catch.

And the truth is, if they did that, they would quickly go out of business because all of a sudden, it’s no longer valuable to go to the steakhouse. Why would you go and buy a $50 steak on your special anniversary if you could just get one for free on the corner? You would just go to another fancy place on your special anniversary and pay well for your fancy meal.

Now the steakhouse may decide instead to give tiny samples of their steak to entice you to enjoy that fancy meal. That’s an amazing strategy to get you to eat there, especially if you’re really hungry because you would pay the extra money if you were really really hungry.

Do you see what I mean? I know what I AM talking about because I was completely out of balance in terms of giving, and it’s taking me a while to bring myself into alignment so that I can really make a big impact. If you really are serious about changing people’s lives, you need to stop giving away all your time and stuff for free, recognize your VALUE and MONETIZE your offerings in a way that’s reflective of what you are worth, which is way HIGHER than what you originally are thinking. We’re talking about changing the world here people. How valuable is that?!

Stop trying to do everything in your pretty creative mind! WHAT?! You HAVE TO START WITH ONE THING! I give you permission to stop pouting and throwing that temper tantrum about what I just said. Here’s why: We creators have a cajillion ideas...of course, we’re Divine Limitless beings! But we cannot be effective on the earthly HUMAN plane unless we GROUND our ideas. And we must start ONE AT A TIME. You must give all of your attention to one thing at a time; from there you are building momentum to move on to the next thing and so on. Otherwise you DILUTE your energy. (It’s kind of like having quintuplets instead of one child. You need a ton more help to take care of five newborns at one time. It’s possible, but not the best way to go about making an impact.)

Now let’s investigate this offering that you have, which you are going to use to build your spiritual business and really change the world. This offering that you are exchanging with those souls that you already agreed to connect with at this point in their journey, is an INVESTMENT. Your peeps are INVESTING in themselves, in their healing, in their abundance, in finding their purpose. And they are happy to do so. They will invest in working with you at the same level that you invest in yourself! This is not the time to be stingy and have a scarcity mindset. This is the time to think BIG! We have a world to change, and it’s not gonna change with some wishy-washy weak offering. You have to know that what you bring is POWERFUL. You cannot make apologies for your offering. We need you to show up in a big way.

So stop giving away your stuff for free, start seeing your value and monetizing your offering in a big way, one at a time, and then just sit back and watch how you create a big ole splash of LOVE all over our world!

Are You Chasing or Manifesting?

Manifesting is a big deal these days. More and more people are beginning to understand the law of attraction and employing it as a way to get what they want. It’s great! But there may be pitfalls along the way that hinder the work. 

 First, it’s possible to manifest anything, but do you really want to manifest that thing, that relationship, that new job? YES, you say. But are you sure? Because if it’s coming from the energy of I don’t have, so I want, then you may find that once you manifest it, you are not really happy about it or even regret it. Why is that?

 We attract the energy we vibrate. If you attract something from a scarcity or lack mindset, you get more scarcity and lack. If you really want to manifest from a place of ABUNDANCE, you must attract from your Highest Self. 

 The first part of manifesting from your Highest Self is getting clear on your motivation and attracting for the Greater Good. Does this thing, relationship, job, success, advance the good of ALL? If you say YES, then let’s look at manifesting from the perspective of I ALREADY HAVE, and I AM just bringing it into this 3D reality. 

 From this new and expanded place, we are no longer chasing what we are manifesting because we know it’s HERE NOW. We can think of it as hiding until we or others are ready for it to appear. Meanwhile we experience it as HERE NOW by envisioning and feeling it. We give gratitude for it BEFORE it shows up in this physical reality. 

 Here’s a pitfall to avoid: in the process of thanking the Universe for what we are manifesting, don’t think of it as something out there that isn’t here now. Instead think of it as grateful for what’s ALREADY here, much like you would thank someone after they prepared a nice meal for you. 

 Those who are most powerful at manifesting operate from the pure LIGHT, pure LOVE, pure CONSCIOUSNESS that WE ARE because they understand that we are DIVINE LIMITLESS beings. Nothing is impossible to us, and anything is possible. They no longer identify as a human trying to figure this 3D reality out. They identify as Source in human bodies navigating this human experience by tending to our human selves and aligning it with our Divine Selves. 

 That’s REAL POWER! And it’s not hard or frustrating. In fact, flowing as a Divine Limitless being is GRACEFUL, EFFORTLESS and a whole lot of FUN!