Three Steps to Winning in Life:

It ain’t easy being human! And it’s super easy to get tired, embarrassed, afraid, angry. WTF? Why is that so?!

Well let’s back up and think about yourself before you came into that body. You were pure LIGHT, pure LOVE, ecstatic JOY, PEACE beyond understanding. And you AGREED to come into that human body and story and to feel so separate from what you need and want. Why would you do a ridiculous thing like that?!

Ah! Because you knew that what you experienced as a human feeling separate from what you need and want is exactly what you were going to HEAL and reunite back to who you are as LOVE itself. This is your GIFT to humanity because when you heal yourself, you heal EVERYONE because we are ONE.

Meanwhile, when you’re going through this human life feeling so separate from what you need and want, you FORGET who you really are. That’s because your memory was wiped before you came into your body! Lordy! This whole experience here is a PROCESS of REMEMBERING who we are BEFORE we came into these human bodies and stories.

The first step to winning in life is to: REMEMBER WHO YOU ARE, in this moment...and this one...and this one. We do that by being PRESENT, which requires PRACTICES to REWIRE our brains from thinking we are just human, when we are actually the UNIVERSE in a HUMAN BODY!

The next step for winning in life is to ASK FOR HELP, from others who are willing and able to help us. Be willing to invest your time, money and energy in yourself when you ask for help so that you are not giving away your power by expecting someone else to fix you or constantly helping you out of the goodness of their heart. When you take responsibility for your life by learning how to heal YOURSELF with other’s assistance, you empower yourself to win in life, instead of staying a victim. ASK for help from your SPIRIT GUIDES and ANGELS who are waiting for you to ask for their help. The entire Universe is conspiring to help you succeed.

And finally, the third step to winning in life is to: TRUST the PROCESS. When you look at a baby, you wouldn’t expect a baby to be able to drive a car, learn Algebra or cook you dinner. There’s nothing WRONG with the baby. That baby is just not at the stage of development where they could do those things. THERE’S NOTHING WRONG with you! You are just going through your powerful transformation PROCESS and bringing your gifts of healing to our world. You are PERFECT exactly as you are! Just trust the process. Allow it to unfold as you grow, evolve and are ready for the next stage of development.

I love you so much. You totally got this! Just remember who you are and NOTHING is IMPOSSIBLE for you!

Are You Keeping Someone From Their Greatness?

One of the hardest things is to watch someone suffer, especially if it is someone close to us whom we love and are in relationship with. We have a natural tendency to want to stop their suffering, to fix it, to make it go away. There’s nothing wrong with that part of us, however, that is not coming from our Highest Self.

Instead, it is coming from the part of us that judges this SHOULD NOT BE, which is our human spiritual ego that feels separate from what it needs and wants. It’s constantly trying to CONTROL things and people because it’s afraid for itself and others and doesn’t want to feel SEPARATE from what it needs and wants.

What’s not apparent is “fixing someone” is actually not only NOT HELPFUL, but actually does the exact OPPOSITE and causes more suffering because now that person has whatever they were originally were suffering from AND your fear and judgment about it.

When we try to take away someone’s struggle, we are actually KEEPING THEM FROM THEIR GREATNESS. Here’s why: Each of us came here as unique expressions of Source, offering unique gifts through our human experience. Whatever we experience is what we came to heal and harmonize in ourselves and in the collective. We must experience something before we can heal it. That journey is also closely tied to our life’s purpose.

When we judge another person’s experience as WRONG, that it shouldn’t be, we are not RESPECTING what they came here to do, what they came to heal, the gifts they offer through their experience. We actually keep them in their suffering and the illusion of separation by compounding their fears with ours. Underneath that suffering, that struggle, those fears, is their unique expression of Source, their Highest Selves, their GREATNESS.

The best way we can support others who are suffering is to FIRST offer NONJUDGMENTAL PRESENCE, LOVE and ACCEPTANCE to our OWN fears, judgments and limiting beliefs about the other. Then we can offer NONJUDGMENTAL PRESENCE, LOVE and ACCEPTANCE to the other. We can also begin to visualize the other’s highest expression of Source, the greatest version of themselves. When we talk or interact or think of them, we can look past their suffering, their form and story and see them in their most WHOLE HARMONIOUS state of being. Then we can sit back and watch the magic of transformation!

Fear Is Influenced By Me!

I AM not influenced by fear. Fear is INFLUENCED BY ME! 

 What?! Darn right. I know who I AM. I no longer walk around afraid someone’s gonna rob me, cheat me, disappointment me, abuse me, rape me, break my heart. No one can take anything from me because I AM all that IS connected as ONE with all of you! 

When I walk into a room, I don’t take on everybody’s fears. Fear completely dissolves in the light of my presence as LOVE itself. Therefore when I walk into a room I TRANSFORM everyone in that room with LOVE. This is exactly what’s POSSIBLE FOR YOU TOO!

You Are Perfect

If you want to see perfection, look in the mirror. Yes, you are Source, All That Is, clothed in skin having a human experience. You can’t be any better than perfection.

Yet, we spend an exorbitant amount of energy trying to better ourselves by getting an education, earning a better income, improving our appearance, developing more social skills and on and on. There’s nothing wrong with that approach. But we do ourselves a favor by engaging in these activities from the perspective as PERFECTION working out the experience of being human.

From this viewpoint, instead of constantly struggling, fighting, contriving, reaching for something we think we don’t have or are not, we can FLOW seamlessly into a natural way of being that is simply embodying the perfection that we already are.