Are You Living or Dying, Creating or Destroying or Both?

Creative destruction... oxymoron?... not at all... We humans have this thing that we hold onto ideas that we really like, and we shun anything we don’t like. We love life and creation and love. We detest death and destruction and fear. 

What’s wrong with that? you ask... nothing... nothing at all... but it’s the source of our suffering... What?! Come on! You’re such a party pooper! you say... perhaps, but hear me out...

Suppose you had a pet kitty that you loved so much. It followed you everywhere, and you did everything together. But suppose one day your kitty died...😔... I’m so sorry... that really hurts... Suppose you were so upset that you refused to bury your kitty. Instead, you carried your dead kitty around with you everywhere you went, just like old times... peeeuuuu... that’s so weird, you say... I would never do that! you insist. 

That’s exactly what we humans do... all the time... We hold onto things that are dead and gone... maybe not in the physical sense because we have more sense than that! But we absolutely hold onto our IDEAS of what we THOUGHT IT SHOULD BE... my friends... that’s dead and gone... It cannot serve you anymore. 

And until you let go of what you thought it should look like, you die along with your ideas... a slow painful death... inside... But when you let go of those dead ideas, you make space for something new that is alive and will better serve you at this time. 

Life and death, creation and destruction, love and fear, are two sides of the same “coin”... you can’t have one without the other. They are NATURAL cycles. 

If you look at nature, the trees and plants and animals don’t fight these cycles. They just flow with them. Have you ever considered the lifespan of a butterfly? It’s not very long. But the butterfly doesn’t worry about that. When the butterfly dies, it just decomposes, becomes a mushroom or nutrient for another plant to come up, and that’s life. 

Well, even though you see my point, it still doesn’t change the fact that we humans are programmed to resist death, destruction and fear. But mostly, we are resisting what we thought it should be.

In order to change that and to flow more freely in life and reclaim our power that we gave away to all the PEOPLE and THINGS that we held onto in our process of not letting go of what we thought it should be, we must SHIFT our viewpoint away from our LIMITED human way of seeing things and move into our LIMITLESS way of being. 

That requires us to REWIRE our brains. It’s a process that requires a strategy... preferably one that actually works because all those mind games we play to try to force ourselves to work so hard at forgetting and ignoring our crap doesn’t work for long. 

The most skillful way to heal ourselves and rewire our brains is to call in an expert who’s done it for themselves and has taught others to do it. And that’s exactly what my clients have done and are seeing amazing results in their lives! 

My friends, you don’t have to keep suffering and trying to figure it all out by yourself. And if you’re tired of trying to do that, and you’re ready to start taking back your power and loving your life, then send me a PM HERE so we can book a call to see if we are match to work together. And I can get you the same amazing results I’m getting my clients. 

Let’s create something beautiful for you. You deserve it! ❤️

Is Life Random?

It certainly SEEMS that way, but let’s take a look at this... In order to understand the answer to this question, it’s important to pan back out of our limited human viewpoint because it’s hard to see the picture when you’re in the frame.

So we’ll start with a basic understanding of why we even came into these human bodies and stories... We each came here as Source into human bodies in order to evolve our UNIQUE aspect of humanity. Whatever we experience is what we came to heal, so we must experience it first in order to heal it. When we heal ourselves, we heal all of humanity because we are ONE. Therefore our healing is a GIFT to everyone... Yes... all that crap you’ve been through, there’s actually a reason and purpose for it. 

Next, in order to see the bigger picture, we must understand that our souls know what we need in order to evolve our aspect of the collective. Our souls are creating each of our realities 100%. That may sound like a very masochistic assertion because some of us have been through a lot of very difficult and traumatic experiences, but I assure you it is all done in the name of the LOVE that we are. Those people who experience the most trauma, have the possibility of bringing powerful gifts to our world. There’s nothing wrong with any of our journeys. They are all part of a bigger plan. 

Now let’s delve a little deeper... We attract the energy we vibrate. What does that mean? you ask... It means if you are afraid of something, it’s highly likely at some point you will experience something that puts you in touch with that fear. That may sound like it sucks, but understand that the end goal is for you to face that fear and heal it.

By the way, energy doesn’t lie.  just because you say you’re not afraid of something, doesn’t mean that that is not so. You’re soul knows what it’s doing. And so, to answer the original question... Is life random?... The answer is a resounding NO!

So what’s the best way we can make use of this information?... We can begin to skillfully create our reality by training ourselves to use every experience, especially every trigger to ask ourselves these two questions:

What is my soul trying to teach me right now?

And what in me wants my love and attention right now?

I have to admit to be able to do that skillfully requires a process... one that I happen to be an expert at! So, if you’re done with life kicking you around and feeling so beat down, and you’re ready start enjoying your life, then send me a PM HERE to book call so we can see if we’re a match to work together. 

You will never regret investing in yourself. It’s time for you to shine! 

What’s Exactly is Holding You Back and Keeping You in Your Misery?

Is it your troublesome partner that causes you a lot of anguish?... Nope!... Is it the screwed up government that taxes us out the wazoo?... Nope!... Is it that soul sucking job that you feel like you can’t leave but oh you can hardly stand it?... Nope!... Is it that constant debilitating anxiety and depression that won’t go away?... Nope!... Well then what IS IT? you ask, quite exasperated with me...

What’s holding you back and keeping you in your misery is not outside of you at all. It’s inside of you and actually been accumulating over your lifetime...What’s holding you back are your LIMITING BELIEFS that come from your FEARS! You see, nothing or no one can actually limit you. You limit yourself by believing this illusion that you are merely a limited human being using your limited human logic, resources and abilities. Don’t get me wrong... it’s a very clever illusion and feels very real! But an illusion nonetheless because each of us are Divine limitless beings in human bodies. 

The obvious next question is how do we get rid of the limits so we can operate from our limitless nature...Ahhh!... I actually know the answer to that question because I AM dissolving my limiting beliefs left and right as they arise. And I’m getting pretty good at it! That’s why I keep expanding into my limitlessness! It’s so much fun! 

My friends, it’s a PROCESS that requires a strategy... and that’s exactly what I’m teaching my clients! I’ll tell you the first step to removing the limits off your life because that first step is necessary to even being in the position to learn the rest of the process. 

The first step is being willing to FACE YOUR FEARS. What fears? you ask... The ones that are stopping you from investing in yourself by calling in an expert to show you the process, so you don’t keep fiddling around in your misery trying to do it by yourself. And here’s what those fears look like:

“I don’t have enough to invest in my healing,” which underneath that is the belief, “I’m not worthy of investing in.”

“Somebody’s gonna screw me over and take from me, and I will remain in my suffering and also be farther away from my healing.”

Can you see how limiting that is? This kind of limiting beliefs come from our fear of being unworthy and a powerless victim. That’s exactly what wants to be healed! And those fears are causing you to CLOSE, so that you cannot receive your healing. 

The flipside of that is if you choose to face those fears, and take ACTION to heal yourself, you OPEN to receive your healing. 

That’s exactly why getting free help doesn’t work. Because when someone is not willing to invest in themselves, they are in a fearful closed state and unable to receive their healing no matter how wonderful the process is. 

But when someone says I care enough about myself to invest in my healing, something MAGICAL happens... they open like a flower blossom reaching out to receive the warm healing radiance of the sun. Their choice to face their fear and to love themself dissolves their limiting beliefs, and they’re so ready to receive they are healing. It’s so beautiful! 

So, if you’re ready to dissolve your limiting beliefs that have held you back from your healing, then send me a PM HERE to book a call to see if we’re a match to work together. It’s time for you to experience some magic. You deserve it! ❤️

Is Your Health and Happiness Important to You?

That’s a ridiculous question! you say, of course it is!... oh, really?... Let’s take a look at what you really value... But to do that, we must first look at the big picture... I will need to ask you some questions first...

How long have you been suffering from anxiety and sadness? Has it affected your relationships? Your job performance? Your physical health? Your ability to sleep? Are you in a state of constant conflict, drama and trauma with another? Or are you isolated and alone, and it’s so lonely? 

Now... what have you done to heal yourself?... and how much have you INVESTED in your healing?... hmmm... Come to think of it, little or nothing, you say... Why is that? Are you not important enough to be healed? Do you value yourself? Do you value your health? Do you value your happiness? Because your actions speak louder than your words...

Let’s look at a hypothetical story... Suppose you had a child that got into an accident...They were hit by a car while riding their bicycle. And suppose you didn’t have insurance or a way to pay for hospital bills, so you flatly refused to allow your child to go to the hospital to tend to her/his concussion, fractures and gaping wounds... Instead, you told the child, it’s okay... I’ll fix you up the best I can when we get home... Do you think that is in the best interest of your child?... NO! It isn’t... and if the child survives the physical injuries, they’re sure to suffer the psychological repercussions for the rest of their life because their parent put money and the lack of it before their health and wellbeing. 

We do the exact same thing when we refuse to invest in our healing! We are saying to ourselves, You are not important enough to get the proper care from an expert. I don’t value you enough to invest in your wellbeing... When that happens, we are putting money or the lack of it before our healing, which for many of you is not just a matter of feeling better, but is literally a life or death situation! 

My friends, stop waiting for someone to rescue you from your powerlessness. It’s time for YOU to reclaim your power by showing up for yourself. It’s time for you to be your own hero. You do this by valuing yourself and loving yourself enough to making your healing your #1 priority by not letting anything get in the way of your healing, certainly not money or the lack of it. That’s when it’s time to get reSOURCEful. And that’s when the Universe responds because you mean business. 

When you go around expecting people to invest their time, money and energy in your healing, for free or almost free, you’re basically saying, I don’t value myself enough to pay an expert well to heal myself, AND I don’t value the expert enough to pay them for their offering... Can you see that all this situation does is KEEP you POWERLESS! If I were to say to you, I’m going to spend my time, money and energy in you for your healing because you are powerless to do anything for yourself, so I will do it for you... can you see that not only does that keep you as a powerless victim, but it develops an unhealthy co-dependent cycle? 

This is exactly why social services have failed. I’m not helping you by telling you that you are unable to help yourself, so I have to do it for you. Instead, I’m giving you the opportunity to reclaim your power and start actually healing yourself so you can enjoy your life and sustain your healing. 

I believe in you. I see you in your most empowered state. And I know how to bring that out of you. You have to believe in yourself FIRST though, if you expect to be healed. So if you’re sick and tired of being a powerless victim of anxiety and sadness, and you value and love yourself enough to invest in your healing, send me a PM HERE to book a call about working together. It’s time for you to start enjoying your life! ❤️