Is Your Health and Happiness Important to You?

That’s a ridiculous question! you say, of course it is!... oh, really?... Let’s take a look at what you really value... But to do that, we must first look at the big picture... I will need to ask you some questions first...

How long have you been suffering from anxiety and sadness? Has it affected your relationships? Your job performance? Your physical health? Your ability to sleep? Are you in a state of constant conflict, drama and trauma with another? Or are you isolated and alone, and it’s so lonely? 

Now... what have you done to heal yourself?... and how much have you INVESTED in your healing?... hmmm... Come to think of it, little or nothing, you say... Why is that? Are you not important enough to be healed? Do you value yourself? Do you value your health? Do you value your happiness? Because your actions speak louder than your words...

Let’s look at a hypothetical story... Suppose you had a child that got into an accident...They were hit by a car while riding their bicycle. And suppose you didn’t have insurance or a way to pay for hospital bills, so you flatly refused to allow your child to go to the hospital to tend to her/his concussion, fractures and gaping wounds... Instead, you told the child, it’s okay... I’ll fix you up the best I can when we get home... Do you think that is in the best interest of your child?... NO! It isn’t... and if the child survives the physical injuries, they’re sure to suffer the psychological repercussions for the rest of their life because their parent put money and the lack of it before their health and wellbeing. 

We do the exact same thing when we refuse to invest in our healing! We are saying to ourselves, You are not important enough to get the proper care from an expert. I don’t value you enough to invest in your wellbeing... When that happens, we are putting money or the lack of it before our healing, which for many of you is not just a matter of feeling better, but is literally a life or death situation! 

My friends, stop waiting for someone to rescue you from your powerlessness. It’s time for YOU to reclaim your power by showing up for yourself. It’s time for you to be your own hero. You do this by valuing yourself and loving yourself enough to making your healing your #1 priority by not letting anything get in the way of your healing, certainly not money or the lack of it. That’s when it’s time to get reSOURCEful. And that’s when the Universe responds because you mean business. 

When you go around expecting people to invest their time, money and energy in your healing, for free or almost free, you’re basically saying, I don’t value myself enough to pay an expert well to heal myself, AND I don’t value the expert enough to pay them for their offering... Can you see that all this situation does is KEEP you POWERLESS! If I were to say to you, I’m going to spend my time, money and energy in you for your healing because you are powerless to do anything for yourself, so I will do it for you... can you see that not only does that keep you as a powerless victim, but it develops an unhealthy co-dependent cycle? 

This is exactly why social services have failed. I’m not helping you by telling you that you are unable to help yourself, so I have to do it for you. Instead, I’m giving you the opportunity to reclaim your power and start actually healing yourself so you can enjoy your life and sustain your healing. 

I believe in you. I see you in your most empowered state. And I know how to bring that out of you. You have to believe in yourself FIRST though, if you expect to be healed. So if you’re sick and tired of being a powerless victim of anxiety and sadness, and you value and love yourself enough to invest in your healing, send me a PM HERE to book a call about working together. It’s time for you to start enjoying your life! ❤️

What is the #1 Thing That’s Blocking Your Healing?

Is it that your anxiety is so great that it’s too hard to heal?...Nope!... Is it because someone else in our lives is making us so miserable, and we can’t get away from them?... Nope!... Is it because we’re not smart enough to figure out how to heal?...Nope!... Well, tell us already! you say with a touch of irritation... here goes... The #1 thing that’s blocking your healing is scarcity mentality, AKA your idea that you don’t have enough to invest in your healing. 

I can see you looking at me sideways... trying to figure out if I know what I’m talking about. I assure you, I do. I talk to lots of people who suffer from anxiety and sadness and a whole bunch of crap that makes him feel miserable. And this is where the roadblock is: despite the fact they spend the day in bed with debilitating anxiety, they go to the emergency room with panic attacks, they loose their sh*t like a neurotic maniac on a regular basis, their job performance puts them at risk of losing their job, they cannot sleep and spend their nights worrying about all sorts of things, they isolate and feel lonely as hell... you get the idea... when it comes to the point of choosing to prioritize their healing by investing their time, MONEY and energy in their healing, they completely shut down and decide their situation isn’t that bad... or if it is, there’s got to be a better way that’s FREE and FAST to get healed... or they just go on feeling screwed. 

My friends, do you know where that idea of “I don’t have enough” comes from? It comes from your idea of “I’m NOT enough.” That’s exactly what wants to be healed! And if you’re unwilling to let go of scarcity mentality of “I don’t have enough”, then you remain in scarcity, and healing is gonna be hard and a long time coming... Why? Because we attract the energy we vibrate. So when you say, “I don’t have enough,” that’s exactly what you get! But on the flipside, when you choose to let go of scarcity mentality, you open to your limitless nature which is abundance. 

Let me tell you a personal story... Five years ago, my son Cory died suddenly and unexpectedly. That’s a pretty traumatic event. For most people, it puts them down for a long period of time. And sometimes people never recover from that. Fortunately, with Cory‘s assistance from the other side, I embarked on a healing journey and have not only recovered very quickly with the tools to sustain my healing and teach others to do the same, I came into my purpose for being here in this human body at this time, which is to shift human consciousness and create a new earth. Nothing else matters to me.

The way that I change the world is by embodying the LOVE that we are and teaching others to do the same. If you know me at all, you know there is not a fake bone in my body. I see everyone in their most empowered state, no matter what it looks like on the outside. My only motivation for sharing my message is to create a new earth by helping people wake up to who we are as LOVE.

I’ve spent these last five years freely sharing what I’ve learned and have helped a lot of people. And I continue to give away a lot of inspiration and wisdom on a daily basis. But I came to a point where I realized I was energetically out of balance by giving away my offering for free, and I was NOT making a significant impact on people’s lives. Why? Because we don’t value what we don’t pay for. In order for there to be a significant shift in someone’s life, there must be a significant energy exchange. This notion that spirituality should be free is keeping us very small, my friends, and completely out of balance. This is why our world is suffering: because the people who could actually make a difference, the spiritual leaders, have been kept very small with this idea that spirituality and money don’t mix.

When you refuse to invest in your healing, what you are really saying is that you don’t value yourself enough to invest in yourself. And what you are saying to the person who has a significant and transformative offering for you to heal is you don’t value them... or trust them. Now let’s think about this... Why would I want to invest my time and energy in you if you don’t even value yourself, much less me! It won’t work! It’s that plain and simple... You have to KNOW you are worth investing in and be willing to be resourceful enough to do whatever it takes to prioritize your healing. When you have that attitude, trust me, the Universe will provide a way.

For example, I made a huge transition to move to Austin,Texas a little over a year ago. I started a business and began supporting myself for the first time in my entire life. Guess what? It wasn’t hard! And I didn’t have to pinch pennies or do without. In fact, I continue to thrive and flow in abundance. Why is that so? It’s because I opened to my infinite nature, and I said yes to investing in myself. I’ve invested over $60K in myself since I’ve moved here so that I could bring you an offering that will completely shift your life and our world. It has felt amazing investing in myself and in my purpose! I have never regretted investing in myself! The Universe sees that and keeps pouring out abundance on me!

So, when I hear you say “I don’t have enough,” I want to invite you to know that you certainly do have enough and more! And until you’re willing to see that, life is going to be hard. So... are you ready to shift that? Because once you remove that block of scarcity mentality by your choice to let it go and trust the Universe to carry you... because it will... then you’re ready to embark on a healing journey that is amazing and graceful, not hard and painful like what you’re currently doing. (By the way, is that way working for you?... I didn’t think so because you wouldn’t be reading this if it was.)

Anyways, if you’re ready to let go of that fear that somebody’s gonna take something from you and then you’ll really be screwed, and you’re ready to TRUST someone who actually knows how to guide you to healing and has YOUR best interest at heart always because she genuinely CARES and loves you, then send me a PM HERE so we can book a call to see if we’re a match to work together. And I can get you the same results I’m getting my clients.

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What’s It Gonna Take to Heal?

What a great question! I happen to know the answer to that question!...What?... Ohhhh! You want me to tell you!

Well first I wanna say the reason I know how to heal myself is because I tried a bunch of things that didn’t work, until I finally learned what does. Along that learning curve, I learned the reason why so many people are having such a hard time healing is because our conditioning has us looking for healing in ways that are completely opposite to what actually works!

You see, most of us try healing ourselves with the help of doctors and therapists or energy workers and all types of medicines, both natural and Western, even diets and nutrition... all of which are VALID modalities for healing, but not always the most effective and is often a long hard road and doesn’t necessarily show us how to SUSTAIN healing. The reason why is because these are all OUTSIDE-IN approaches to healing.

The most effective approach to healing is an INSIDE-OUT approach since the parts of us that want to be healed are buried deep underneath the other layer of our physical body and even under our mental thinking mind. It’s blocked energy, accumulated from this lifetime and from previous ones, passed on in our cellular DNA.

So now that you know that the real healing comes from our internal work, you’re ALMOST ready to hear specifically the keys to accessing this inner healing. As you well know, in our unhealed state, our THOUGHTS tend to run wild, often pushing away our unwanted feelings, which is EXACTLY what we are healing. So in order to skillfully heal ourselves and sustain our healing..drum roll please...we must first TAME OUR MINDS...then...(this next key can only be achieved after taming our minds though)...we must become the MASTER of OUR EMOTIONS. (By the way, this doesn’t mean becoming a master of IGNORING our emotions! Quite the opposite! We must learn how to LOVE and ACCEPT whatever arises here now.)

Here’s the thing...knowing that you must tame your mind and become the master of your emotions is NOT ENOUGH information to heal yourself. Learning how to do that requires a strategy... one that works. It’s a process... not particularly hard, but a process nonetheless. And that’s exactly what I’m teaching my clients!

So if you’re so DONE with your mind go around and around driving you crazy and your feelings bringing you so low that you can crawl under a worm, then send me a PM HERE so we can book a call to see if we’re a match to work together.

It’s time for you to really start enjoying your life! Don’t you think?

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Got BOUNDARIES?

What’s this?... a map quest?... Well, no... it’s a quest to determine if we have boundaries or none at all. But before I continue, let’s define boundaries... according to Webster, a boundary is “a line that marks the limits of an area.” In this case, the area is a person, you or me or someone else. 

Sometimes we get confused about boundaries because we forget where we end and another person starts. This would be when there are no boundaries because we are all meshed together with the other. When and why does this happen? It primarily happens when we want to be accepted, liked, loved by the other, and in our zeal for wanting that acceptance or approval, we open so much that we completely forget about what we as individuals want and need because we’re so busy trying to get the other’s approval. 

When this happens, we lose our sense of self, we allow other people to impose themselves onto our space, and we wind up feeling out of control of our lives. Then we start feeling resentful, irritated, angry and defensive, while not having the awareness or skill to speak up about what’s happening inside of us. 

Some people experience the other extreme where they have so many boundaries that they’re walled up like Fort Knox. They’ve been so hurt that they put up impenetrable walls that are extremely difficult to get close to the person. What they’re doing is trying to protect themselves from getting hurt again. And the strategy works at first, but fails miserably when the person realizes the very thing they want...that is to be loved and accepted...they’ve made impossible because of their extreme boundaries that come from their fears. So they remain alone. 

Hmmm... What’s a person to do? What we need here is BALANCE... to be able to have healthy boundaries so that we can know what we need and want as individuals AND to give ourselves space to not be constantly infringed upon by others, WHILE being able to both navigate and articulate our needs. That, my friends, requires a STRATEGY... one that comes from experience and skill... and that’s exactly what I’m teaching my clients!

If you’re struggling with boundaries and you’ve lost your sense of self or you’re overcome with fear from trying to defend yourself from attack, then send me a PM HERE to book a call so we can see about bringing balance and health into your life. 

You matter. You are important. You deserve to feel happy and be loved. ❤️

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