Everything Rises and Falls on Leadership

If we have a poor leader, we struggle to make it. If we have a great leader, we soar. Let’s look a little closer at this...many of the circles I run in are leaders, like me. I learn a lot from them, but I notice a dynamic that seems to be limiting what’s possible: it’s common to reach a level of proficiency by following a good leader, becoming a leader, and then to stop following a leader.

Here’s the thing...We can only advance as far as the leader. So when we outgrow a leader, we may be tempted to just go solo and piggyback on our peers’ ideas for growth. While that kind of collaboration is very important, once again, we can only rise as high as the people who are at the top. So, the value of peer leadership becomes very limited.

My point is that if we wish to continue expanding into our leadership potential, the most skillful way is to get guidance and leadership from someone who is doing what we want to do and doing it well. And that requires us being humble and open enough to receive and willing to invest our time, money and energy in our growth as a leader. So if we want to continue growing as a good leader, we must continue following a good leader. That’s all!

A Word of Encouragement When Life Gets Hard…

Let’s get one thing straight first...Every one of us is pure LOVE in a human body...Source in skin...God in costume. Got it? So, it ain’t easy being human. Sometimes life is freakin hard!...that is if you’re merely being human...but it ain’t hard at all when you’re God...The trouble comes when you don’t remember that you are God in costume and when you don’t know how to access your God nature.

I will tell you how to access your Divine nature, but even though it’s quite simple, you won’t remember by tomorrow nor know how to do this simple thing consistently without more help...Are you ready?...YES! you say with a hint of exasperation in your voice... The way to access your Divine limitless nature is to be PRESENT with love and acceptance to whatever arises HERE NOW.

Hmmm....You’re scratching your head on that one...Did she get that right? you think...Meanwhile, if you ascertain that yes, I did in fact get it right...which I did because I AM living my life gracefully, effortlessly and having a whole lot of fun with my new life...and you are ready to get assistance with your journey like my clients are doing...then send me a PM HERE to book a call so we can talk about shifting you out of life being hard to life being effortless and fun.

So remember when life gets hard, it’s time to be God. It ain’t hard to be God! ❤️

My Life as a Game and How I’m Winning

Have you ever played chess? What if our lives were one big chess game? Well, who are we playing against? you ask... That’s the thing...It LOOKS like we’re playing against other people and situations that arise. But things are not what they seem. I AM the creator of my entire human experience. It’s not random...The other player is actually a version of me! It’s CONSCIOUSNESS as the Older Wiser Version of me in the future!

This older wiser version of me from my future knows exactly what to put into my life so that I can advance towards my future self. Each incident, trigger, trauma is like a move on the chess board. When those things happen, it’s now our turn, the current version of us. So, here’s the thing, if we approach the game from our limited human self, we’re not likely to do as well, and it’s not fun because we don’t have the advantage. It’s like Unconsciousness playing Consciousness. But, if we operate as the Divine limitless beings that we are that knows everything we need to know in this moment, we are able to play the game more skillfully. At this point, it’s Consciousness playing Consciousness.

With this awareness, we are able to go through life bringing our amazing future into the present. By the way, if you are playing a game against yourself, you automatically win! And it’s so much more fun!

Do I HAVE To?

Well, no you don’t have to do anything! In fact, let’s play a game...Every time we hear ourselves say, “Have to, need to, SHOULD or MUST”, let’s REFRAME it!

Why? you ask...Because those expressions come from our LIMITED human selves that feel SEPARATE from what we need and want and is constantly striving to achieve something that is not HERE NOW. Going deeper into that thought: when I say “should”, I’m judging that something’s wrong with what IS. Hmmmm...I can hear you thinking!

Let’s look at the reframes to see how we can flow more gracefully and effortlessly, so that we can both enjoy what IS and achieve a better future:

Old way: I should...

Reframe: I have the opportunity to...

Old way: I have to or need to...

Reframe: I GET to...

Old way: I must...

Reframe: I choose to...

Now we’ve positioned ourselves to fully ACCEPT WHAT IS, so that we can truly live and ENJOY this moment because we are flowing from our Highest Selves. And we accomplished this by simply shifting our viewpoint by how we speak! Good job! ❤️