Do I HAVE To?

Well, no you don’t have to do anything! In fact, let’s play a game...Every time we hear ourselves say, “Have to, need to, SHOULD or MUST”, let’s REFRAME it!

Why? you ask...Because those expressions come from our LIMITED human selves that feel SEPARATE from what we need and want and is constantly striving to achieve something that is not HERE NOW. Going deeper into that thought: when I say “should”, I’m judging that something’s wrong with what IS. Hmmmm...I can hear you thinking!

Let’s look at the reframes to see how we can flow more gracefully and effortlessly, so that we can both enjoy what IS and achieve a better future:

Old way: I should...

Reframe: I have the opportunity to...

Old way: I have to or need to...

Reframe: I GET to...

Old way: I must...

Reframe: I choose to...

Now we’ve positioned ourselves to fully ACCEPT WHAT IS, so that we can truly live and ENJOY this moment because we are flowing from our Highest Selves. And we accomplished this by simply shifting our viewpoint by how we speak! Good job! ❤️

Now we’ve positioned ourselves to fully ACCEPT WHAT IS, so that we can truly live and ENJOY this moment because we are flowing from our Highest Selves. And we accomplished this by simply shifting our viewpoint by how we speak! Good job! ❤️

Looking For a Quick Fix for Problems with Life?

Well, of course you are! Every single one of us just want to feel better...NOW. There’s nothing wrong with that. However, I have good news and bad news. Which would you like to hear first?...the bad news?...okay... The bad news is that there is NOT …

Well, of course you are! Every single one of us just want to feel better...NOW. There’s nothing wrong with that. However, I have good news and bad news. Which would you like to hear first?...the bad news?...okay... The bad news is that there is NOT actually a quick fix for real problems that actually work. It may seem to work for a little while, and you feel a little better, but it doesn’t actually solve the problem. Now the good news... The good news is that there ARE solutions that DO work to heal your problems with life. They’re just not instant. They require your input, as well as whatever the solution offers.

Let’s look a little closer at this. We didn’t get these problems overnight, so it’s entirely unreasonable to think that we could get rid of them instantly. Those of you who have been through some very difficult things, may be very tired and exhausted from trying so many things. And the frustrating thing is that they did not sustain your healing. Can I tell you a secret?... The reason why those things did not heal or sustain your healing is because the healing must come from within, and there must be a way to sustain doing this inner work.

I’ve been watching how we operate: perhaps we go through an event or series of events that have been very difficult for us. That throws us into a journey with anxiety, sadness, anger, frustration and a bunch more. At first, it’s all so overwhelming that we don’t know which way to turn. Then we start trying this and that. Maybe we go to a therapist or to get a massage or read a book or distract or numb ourselves in some way. Some of it actually helps for a while, but it doesn’t seem to last. Talk about frustrating!

I want to have a frank discussion with those of you who have really tried and have been unable to sustain your healing. And you’re having a difficult time with all of those feelings and noticing more drama into your life. You’re REALLY READY to heal yourself. More importantly, you are willing to PRIORITIZE your healing above all else... I have really good news for you. You have positioned yourself to shift in a major way. The thing is that you haven’t been able to do this on your own. If you could, you would, but you haven’t.

This is where the Universe is asking you to take a big step and LOVE yourself enough to invest your time, money and energy in yourself by working with someone who actually knows how to bring you to your healing and show you how to sustain it. If that’s you, don’t hesitate. Today’s the day that you begin to set yourself free to really enjoy your life. Send me a PM HERE to book a call, so that we can see if we’re a vibrational match to work together, and I can get you the same results I am getting my clients.

You are IMPORTANT! You matter. You deserve to be happy. You deserve to be loved. ❤️

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Hit a Wall in Life?

We were minding our own business, doing the best we can dealing with all that life has thrown our way, when lo and behold...out of nowhere...we slam into a wall! WTF? Who’s bright idea was this to put a wall right in the middle of the path?!That’s w…

We were minding our own business, doing the best we can dealing with all that life has thrown our way, when lo and behold...out of nowhere...we slam into a wall! WTF? Who’s bright idea was this to put a wall right in the middle of the path?!

That’s when we hear it...what’s that?...the wall...It talks! So we start listening as the wall speaks: You’re not gonna make it. In fact, you’re gonna fail...epic fail. Why? Because you don’t know what you’re doing. Why’s that? Two reasons...one is you’re not very smart, and the other is you’re lazy. Look around...everybody else has their sh*t together, but somehow you don’t. Doesn’t that say something about you? I mean really...haven’t you noticed nobody wants to hang with you?...

This has to be the meanest wall we’ve ever heard! So we hall off and punch the wall, but that wasn’t a great idea because it’s still talking and now our fist hurts. Finally, we plop down with our back against the wall feeling completely powerless... and the wall stops talking...But we still hear something...Sounds like it’s coming from the other side of the wall!

It sounds joyful...and peaceful...and people are actually talking quite beautifully to one another...and we realize that’s OUR life on the other side of the wall...waiting for us! Just then, we see this woman standing in front of us. 

She says she lives on the other side of the wall, and she is inviting us to join her. But we can’t, we say...we don’t know how to get past the wall. No worries, she says...I do...and I can show you. It took me a little while to figure it out, but it’s actually not as hard as you think, she says. 

Well, of course, you know a good thing when you see it, so you take her up on her offer. And before long, you make it to the other side of the wall. It’s amazing! It’s actually better than you expected. And to think...it wasn’t long ago that you were plopped down with your back up against the wall listening to the meanest words and feeling so alone and powerless! 

If this story sounds like your story, and you’re ready to experience something new and beautiful, then send me a PM HERE to book a call, so that we can see if we’re a vibrational match to work together, and I can get you the same results I am getting my clients.

You are IMPORTANT! You matter. You deserve to be happy. You deserve to be loved. ❤️

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Are You Leaving Your Human Behind?

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What are you talking about? you ask... I’m talking about ideas in spiritual circles that are constantly trying to achieve a desireless enlightened state of being. (If you have no idea what I’m talking about then this article may not be for you.)...Back to being desireless, there’s a notion that our job here is to identify as the Buddha, the One, which is not separate from anything and anyone, therefore has no desires because we realize we ARE all that we desire. This is true...but we’re missing the boat entirely if we are trying to achieve this enlightened state of being because desiring to be enlightened is a desire that comes from feeling separate from enlightenment. 

Let’s unravel this so we can get to some really practical stuff that will help us do what we came here to do. And we’ll start with forgetting about enlightenment altogether! It’s just a word...Stop chasing it...You won’t be able to catch it because it’s not catchable. It’s actually not a state of being that is sustained...Moving right along...

We obviously came here for a reason. And that reason is to evolve human consciousness through our unique human experience. So, it’s really important that we don’t push away our human self as wrong, but instead we tend to our human. Our work is to ALIGN our human self with our Divine self. Our human self feels separate from what it needs and wants. Our Divine self knows that it is One with all that it is. Our conditioning is to fight our human self and treat it as wrong like an unwanted stepchild. If we expect to heal ourselves and our world, we must reprogram ourselves to care for and nurture our human selves. In order to heal our human selves, it’s important that we identify as Divine limitless beings, so that we can do our work effectively.

Now let’s talk a little bit more about desire. Desire comes from our human selves that feel separate from what we need and want. From this new and expanded identification as Divine limitless beings, our desires can become like a GPS to bring us to all the places that need our healing and to all the places where we can create for the Greater Good. We must know that our desires are not wrong. In fact, nothing is inherently wrong because it’s all part of the One. 

Now when we desire something that we don’t have in our current 3-D reality, we can use this information to help us heal, grow and expand consciousness. For example, if I want a relationship, I can be aware that there are parts of me that feels separate from another. What wants my love and attention now? Is it the lonely one, the unwanted one, the unworthy one? These are all parts of myself that I came to heal. Once I offer my love and acceptance to these parts of myself, I position myself to attract people into my life who are vibrating at the same level of healing. The same is true when it comes to creating. If I desire to have a thriving coaching business, that desire actually gives me the energy to pursue that. Otherwise, I wouldn’t do it because it’s not easy to start a business, let alone be successful at it. 

The trick is that once I identify the desire, I begin to operate from my limitless nature by knowing that I’m not actually separate from that desire. I just haven’t brought it into my reality yet. When I create this way, life becomes graceful and effortless because I’m not approaching it from my limited human self that feels separate from it. 

It’s kind of like swimming back-and-forth between my Divine self and my human self, while bringing my human self into alignment and healing in the process. This way I don’t fight or abandon my human self because that would be in direct contradiction to why I came into this human body to begin with. 

So, now back to the question...Are you leaving your human behind? Because if you are...don’t. We need you to show up for yourself. The entire world is depending on you to do your part that only you can do. That is...BE GLORIOUSLY WONDERFULLY YOU!