Hit a Wall in Life?

We were minding our own business, doing the best we can dealing with all that life has thrown our way, when lo and behold...out of nowhere...we slam into a wall! WTF? Who’s bright idea was this to put a wall right in the middle of the path?!

That’s when we hear it...what’s that?...the wall...It talks! So we start listening as the wall speaks: You’re not gonna make it. In fact, you’re gonna fail...epic fail. Why? Because you don’t know what you’re doing. Why’s that? Two reasons...one is you’re not very smart, and the other is you’re lazy. Look around...everybody else has their sh*t together, but somehow you don’t. Doesn’t that say something about you? I mean really...haven’t you noticed nobody wants to hang with you?...

This has to be the meanest wall we’ve ever heard! So we hall off and punch the wall, but that wasn’t a great idea because it’s still talking and now our fist hurts. Finally, we plop down with our back against the wall feeling completely powerless... and the wall stops talking...But we still hear something...Sounds like it’s coming from the other side of the wall!

It sounds joyful...and peaceful...and people are actually talking quite beautifully to one another...and we realize that’s OUR life on the other side of the wall...waiting for us! Just then, we see this woman standing in front of us. 

She says she lives on the other side of the wall, and she is inviting us to join her. But we can’t, we say...we don’t know how to get past the wall. No worries, she says...I do...and I can show you. It took me a little while to figure it out, but it’s actually not as hard as you think, she says. 

Well, of course, you know a good thing when you see it, so you take her up on her offer. And before long, you make it to the other side of the wall. It’s amazing! It’s actually better than you expected. And to think...it wasn’t long ago that you were plopped down with your back up against the wall listening to the meanest words and feeling so alone and powerless! 

If this story sounds like your story, and you’re ready to experience something new and beautiful, then send me a PM HERE to book a call, so that we can see if we’re a vibrational match to work together, and I can get you the same results I am getting my clients.

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Are You Leaving Your Human Behind?

What are you talking about? you ask... I’m talking about ideas in spiritual circles that are constantly trying to achieve a desireless enlightened state of being. (If you have no idea what I’m talking about then this article may not be for you.)...Back to being desireless, there’s a notion that our job here is to identify as the Buddha, the One, which is not separate from anything and anyone, therefore has no desires because we realize we ARE all that we desire. This is true...but we’re missing the boat entirely if we are trying to achieve this enlightened state of being because desiring to be enlightened is a desire that comes from feeling separate from enlightenment. 

Let’s unravel this so we can get to some really practical stuff that will help us do what we came here to do. And we’ll start with forgetting about enlightenment altogether! It’s just a word...Stop chasing it...You won’t be able to catch it because it’s not catchable. It’s actually not a state of being that is sustained...Moving right along...

We obviously came here for a reason. And that reason is to evolve human consciousness through our unique human experience. So, it’s really important that we don’t push away our human self as wrong, but instead we tend to our human. Our work is to ALIGN our human self with our Divine self. Our human self feels separate from what it needs and wants. Our Divine self knows that it is One with all that it is. Our conditioning is to fight our human self and treat it as wrong like an unwanted stepchild. If we expect to heal ourselves and our world, we must reprogram ourselves to care for and nurture our human selves. In order to heal our human selves, it’s important that we identify as Divine limitless beings, so that we can do our work effectively.

Now let’s talk a little bit more about desire. Desire comes from our human selves that feel separate from what we need and want. From this new and expanded identification as Divine limitless beings, our desires can become like a GPS to bring us to all the places that need our healing and to all the places where we can create for the Greater Good. We must know that our desires are not wrong. In fact, nothing is inherently wrong because it’s all part of the One. 

Now when we desire something that we don’t have in our current 3-D reality, we can use this information to help us heal, grow and expand consciousness. For example, if I want a relationship, I can be aware that there are parts of me that feels separate from another. What wants my love and attention now? Is it the lonely one, the unwanted one, the unworthy one? These are all parts of myself that I came to heal. Once I offer my love and acceptance to these parts of myself, I position myself to attract people into my life who are vibrating at the same level of healing. The same is true when it comes to creating. If I desire to have a thriving coaching business, that desire actually gives me the energy to pursue that. Otherwise, I wouldn’t do it because it’s not easy to start a business, let alone be successful at it. 

The trick is that once I identify the desire, I begin to operate from my limitless nature by knowing that I’m not actually separate from that desire. I just haven’t brought it into my reality yet. When I create this way, life becomes graceful and effortless because I’m not approaching it from my limited human self that feels separate from it. 

It’s kind of like swimming back-and-forth between my Divine self and my human self, while bringing my human self into alignment and healing in the process. This way I don’t fight or abandon my human self because that would be in direct contradiction to why I came into this human body to begin with. 

So, now back to the question...Are you leaving your human behind? Because if you are...don’t. We need you to show up for yourself. The entire world is depending on you to do your part that only you can do. That is...BE GLORIOUSLY WONDERFULLY YOU!

Are You Fighting a Brick Wall and It’s Winning?

Ouch! That hurts! Want to know a better way?...First, in order for me to help you understand how to stop bloodying up yourself fighting the brick wall, I must help you to understand a few things about the brick wall. Allow me to take you on a brief journey outside of your usual mental viewpoint and into another dimension.

Have you ever looked at a hologram and seen the 3-D image inside? You have to focus your eyes past the 2-D image in order to see the 3-D scene come alive. Well, you know that brick wall you’re fighting? Let’s just say it is all your problems here in this 3-D human life: your demanding partner, your lousy job, your unruly kids, your lack of money, your poor health, your fear that somebody’s gonna take something from you and make you more powerless than you already are. It’s a very formidable wall of suffering. And it seems very REAL. Of course, it is real in this 3-D human dimension!

But let’s take a gander and focus past this human dimension of brick walls that get in our way. On the other side of all those human problems that seem so real, is your most fantastical life, one where you are at peace, you feel joyful, you have everything you need and want, you are loved exactly as you are and you love others the same way. It’s so beautiful! You may be wondering...How do I get past the brick wall? Good question...

The brick wall, AKA all your human problems, are actually a fantastic hologram, an illusion in this 3-D reality. It cannot prevent you from experiencing the dimension behind it, when you operate from your limitless nature in a different dimension. Seems crazy, right? You’re telling me the brick wall isn’t real in other dimensions, and that I can move right past it, you say incredulously. Yes, that’s what I’m saying. And before you dismiss me as a total nut job, you may want to keep reading...

This 3-D human reality is a tiny sliver of what’s happening in any given moment. Just because you can’t see or detect with your human logic and senses those things, doesn’t mean they don’t exist. Can you see an atom? An electron? A quark? Can you smell the scent of a missing person like a dog does? Can science detect all there is to know about the multiverse? Am I right? The truth is what we can know from our human logic, abilities and resources is extremely LIMITED.

Now back to the brick wall...Things are not what they seem. If you want to experience what’s on the other side of that wall, you must learn how to go through it, to dissolve it. How do I do that? you ask. You must learn how to operate past this limited human 3-D reality and to flow from your Divine limitless nature. How do you do that? you say, with a hint of exasperation in your voice.

It’s actually quite simple, but completely UNFAMILIAR, so it makes it seem hard. Tell us already!!!...The way to move past your limited human reality and to live from your unlimited nature is to BE HERE NOW with whatever arises and to LOVE the hell out of that. What the hell are you talking about?! you say...Calm down..I’ll explain...

When we are PRESENT, we tap into our Divine limitless nature because we ARE PRESENCE itself. The thing is that we are not used to being present, much less used to being present with and loving all of our fear, sadness, anger. We are used to pushing those parts of us away and fighting them. There’s our brick wall again! All you’re doing when you fight your problems is blooding yourself up, wearing yourself out and making it worse. What you need, in order to learn how to be present and how to love all of those parts that are asking to be healed, is a strategy, preferably from an expert who has done it and knows how to show other people how to do it. That’s exactly what I’m doing for my clients. I’m helping them to rewire their brains to live from their unlimited power.

So if you’re so tired of bloodying up your fists by fighting the brick wall, and you’re ready to enjoy the amazing new life beyond the wall, then send me a PM HERE to book a call, so that we can see if we’re a vibrational match to work together, and I can get you the same results I am getting my clients.

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Tired of Being Bullied?

Booo...hissss...Nobody likes a bully. Pushing people around. Trying to push, control, take by force. Sometimes it’s in very overt shows of violence and anger. Sometimes it’s in cunning more subtle ways. Either way it’s mean.

Why does the bully bully? Because he/she feels separate from what he needs and wants...separate from love..separate from being wanted...separate from feeling worthy. And he chooses to take it by force or manipulation from others.

Here’s a surprise...Do you know who the biggest bully is?...our own Self! Nah! you say...Well, let’s look at this: who is the one who is constantly trying to whip you into shape? Tell you that you didn’t do it right, AGAIN? Tell you you’re not smart enough, pretty enough, talented enough? Tell you the reason you don’t have the things you want is because you’re lazy, and why don’t just get up and go to the gym? Nobody likes flab, and you have lots of it. As a matter of fact, that’s why people aren’t attracted to you. If you would just work harder, you could get what you want, but NO...you wimped out again and took the easy route...

It’s mean and relentless. The bully is our own EGO, trying to keep itself alive. What’s a person to do about the bully? Should we fight the bully? Should we just acquiesce to him, hoping sooner or later he will be appeased and stop bullying? Nope... that’s not gonna work.

The only way to stop the bully from bullying is to love and accept him/her. That’s how you heal and transform the bully into LOVE. Well, HOW do we do that? you ask.

It’s a process that requires a strategy, tools and most importantly GUIDANCE. That’s exactly what I’m doing for my clients. So if you’re tired of the bully, and you’re ready to reclaim your power, then send me a PM HERE to book a call, so that we can see if we’re a vibrational match to work together, and I can get you the same results I am getting my clients.

You are IMPORTANT! You matter. You deserve to be happy. You deserve to be loved. ❤️

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