Did You Know Fighting Anything Makes It Worse?

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Let me guess... you want to fight me for saying that! Well maybe not fight me, but argue with me... It’s just our human nature to fight and resist. In fact, we actually needed that instinct to survive on the planet. What’s not apparent to us is that at this stage in our human evolution, not only do we not need fighting and resisting, we are making things worse by it because what we fight, we strengthen, and what we resist persists. 

Let’s take a closer look at this by looking at all the war, disease, crime, abuse, desolation and a bunch of other crap in our world. It makes us angry, sad, afraid just for starters. It hurts to see suffering and destruction. But here’s where we get stuck: we think that what’s happening out there in the world is over there, and we are powerless over it. 

What’s not obvious to us is that we are actually ONE with everything, and when we fight something or someone outside of ourselves, we are actually fighting OURSELVES. What do you mean? you say. I mean that ANGER, that SADNESS, that FEAR that you FEEL when you see suffering is PART of YOU! And when you fight and resist parts of yourself, you make the suffering worse because those parts of you are asking to be healed. 

In fact, when you heal those parts of yourself, your anger, your sadness, your fear, instead of pushing them away, distracting yourself or fighting to change the situation so that what’s happening outside of you changes, you heal the entire world because we are ONE. 

Well, how do I heal my anger, sadness, fear? you ask. You do the exact OPPOSITE of what have been doing, that is all that fighting and resisting. In order to heal yourself and our world because we are ONE, you LOVE and ACCEPT all of those parts of you that are suffering and asking to be healed! 

When you do that, you EXPAND more into your Divine limitless nature and position yourself to take inspired action or non-action that will truly shift and heal the suffering in our world. Otherwise life will be HARD, and you will bust your butt trying to make change that doesn’t happen because you are operating from your LIMITED human nature. This is how we change the world: by LOVING and ACCEPTING the hell out of what’s HERE NOW. 

How do we do that? you ask! That my friends requires a STRATEGY because it’s not something we can just logically understand and then change. It’s a process to SHIFT from fighting and resisting ourselves to loving and accepting ourselves, which is exactly what I’m showing my clients how to do! 

So if you’re over fighting yourself and watching our world go to hell in a hand basket, and you’re READY to create a new life and a new world, then BOOK a CALL HERE so that we can see if we’re a vibrational match to work together, and I can get you the same results I am getting my clients. (Don’t put it off because you know good and well that fear will keep you from reaching out, and you’ll just continue in your misery.)

You are IMPORTANT! You matter. You deserve to be happy. You deserve to be loved. And I love you so much! 

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Is Life Kicking Your Butt?

And you feel helpless and afraid? No matter how hard you try, something comes up that keeps you down. Do you feel powerless? Like you don’t have a choice? Life keeps dealing you a bad hand. People treating you like crap, maybe taking advantage of yo…

And you feel helpless and afraid? No matter how hard you try, something comes up that keeps you down. Do you feel powerless? Like you don’t have a choice? Life keeps dealing you a bad hand. People treating you like crap, maybe taking advantage of you. Maybe you’ve been traumatized by a bad breakup or divorce, and you’re so sick of the drama and conflict with your ex. And you feel unappreciated, unwanted, maybe even suppressed, pushed down. 

All that does is make you more afraid, anxious and angry. Arrrggh! Being powerless sucks, but you have no clue how to turn your life around. What you need is a strategy to shift from being powerless to being powerful beyond measure. 

Let me tell you a story about one of my clients: He’s a really nice guy, and he’s been through a lot of trauma. Meanwhile, people take advantage of his good nature by constantly wanting more and more from him. It has made him feel really anxious and completely powerless because he thought that if he didn’t keep giving everybody all they demanded from him, they wouldn’t like him, but he felt taken advantage of over and over. It has just made him feel so crazy. So he and I did some work together, so that by the time we finished, he totally shifted his energy from being powerless to being powerful and in control of his life, while operating from the vibration of love. From there, he went into an important meeting, that he originally thought would be a big fight. But since he shifted his energy with a strategy of how to respond from the power of love, the meeting went beautifully. In fact he said, “It went BETTER than I could have ever expected. I felt confident in communicating my decisions of how to act in everyone’s best interests, while operating from compassion and care for the others.”

So if you’re ready to shift your life from powerless to powerful like my clients are doing, and to create an amazing new life for yourself, then BOOK a CALL here https://calendly.com/deniseeroussel/discovery-call so that we can see if we’re a vibrational match to work together, and I can get you the same results I am getting my clients. (Don’t put it off because you know good and well that fear will keep you from reaching out, and you’ll just continue in your misery.)

You are IMPORTANT! You matter. You deserve to be happy. You deserve to be loved. And I love you so much! 

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Would You Willingly Hurt Yourself?

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Would you bang your head against the wall? Would you starve yourself for weeks on end? Would you punch yourself? Of course you wouldn’t! That hurts! 

What you don’t realize is that when you fight, reject and ignore your fear, sadness, anger, you are actually fighting and hurting parts of yourself! Now don’t get down on yourself for being so mean. You didn’t know any better. The truth is that you have been abandoning and rejecting parts of yourself since you were a small child. You had to. Your parents weren’t going to put up with that crap. 

So here we are today, all beat up and suffering from anxiety, depression and grief. It actually probably never occurred to you that you played a big role in the suffering you are enduring by making things worse by fighting, rejecting and ignoring these parts of yourself. And it probably hasn’t occurred to you that you have the power to heal  yourself. But in order to do that, you must learn how to stop fighting yourself and start loving these parts of yourself. That, my friends, requires a strategy, which is exactly what I’m showing my clients to do. 

Me telling you that you must love these parts of yourself is not enough. You’ve been rejecting and fighting yourself your entire life. You cannot rewire your mind with simply reading about it and understanding it logically. It’s a PROCESS, which is exactly what I’m showing my clients how to practice. 

Now I know for a fact you don’t want to keep suffering. I know you don’t want to keep hurting yourself by rejecting and fighting yourself. But fear has a tricky way of keeping you down. It will tell you things like: just hang in there and read a few Facebook posts until you feel a little better and then go about your business ignoring and fighting yourself. So you put it off. And essentially you do NOTHING about all the pain you feel every single day. Am I right?

I’m curious...Have you had enough of being so wound up with anxiety, grief and anger? Have you had enough of fighting and rejecting yourself? Are you sick and tired of being sick and tired? Then what are waiting for? Nobody is going to come and rescue you. Why? Because YOU are your own HERO! The Universe is waiting for YOU to take action to heal yourself, and when you do, it will totally help you succeed in freeing yourself. 

What action do I take? you say... it’s time to call in an expert. Someone who will GUIDE you to healing yourself. Someone who you TRUST, and who you know has done this for them self and for other people. That’s exactly what my clients have done! 

If you could do this by yourself, you would! But you haven’t. So I’m wondering... Are you ready to TAKE ACTION? Are you ready to start loving yourself like you’ve never done before in your entire life? Are you ready to create a beautiful life for yourself? Are you ready to be your own hero? Then send me a PM TODAY HERE to book a call so that we can see if we’re a vibrational match to work together, and I can get you the same results I am getting my clients. (Don’t put it off because you know good and well that fear will keep you from reaching out, and you’ll just continue in your misery.)

You are IMPORTANT! You matter. You deserve to be happy. You deserve to be loved. And I love you so much! 

Free gift for you!

4 Simple Steps to Relieve Anxiety in 4 Minutes

Are You Attached to Your Diet Plans and Ideas About Healing?

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Outside-In approaches to healing like diets, medicines, exercise routines and energy work are most effective when: a) They are an ADDENDUM to the Inside-Out healing of loving ourselves unconditionally, and b) They are intuited according to what’s appropriate in this moment for an individual. (There is no one right way for anyone to live because we all have different bodies, needs and are doing different things.)

Otherwise, if the Outside-In approaches are treated as the sole or primary source of healing, they can become a hindrance and a limitation because the individual is relying on human logic, abilities and resources and often giving away their power to someone or something else to heal them, instead of working from their Divine limitless nature that is continually present with what’s needed and appropriate in this moment, and which can change in 5 minutes. 

Also, following plans, rules and regiments do not require a person to be present, and limits people to their human 3D reality, which feels separate from what it needs and wants. This is why even so called spiritual communities get stuck and become essentially like any other religion. Just saying…